When the Adults Change/Coleg Gwent Behaviour Change Course

Contents

Hello and welcome

Working with Coleg Gwent
Video: How it all began
Copyright
Drip Drip Drip

Introduction

Video: There Is Always Another Way

What to say

In this section, we will look at...

  • How your language affects behaviour

  • How to avoid deficit language

  • How to structure a 2-minute pep talk that works for everyone

  • What to say in the trickiest moments

  • How to avoid shaming

  • What to say when learners argue or try to negotiate your expectations


There is specific advice on the language that works well and a task that is an essential reflective tool. 

Video: Language
Task: Seven days, five phrases
Video: Positive Noticing
Audio: Countdown
Pauses, walkaways and positive nudges
Video: Fogging
Audio: The best two-minute intervention
Preview
Video: Secondary Behaviours
Mind Candy
Video: Distressed Behaviour
Audio: How Consistency Can Crumble
Move on when...

What to do



This section is about the practical aspects of setting up your learning environment to lay the foundations of excellent relational practice. We will look at:

  • How to create a behaviour plan so you know exactly what the next steps are

  • How to apply a consequence without an angry reaction

  • How to structure support beyond the classroom

  • Why you must follow up every time and why that is a powerful strategy

  • How to use coaching to support learners who struggle to follow the rules

Video: Envelopes at the Door
Audio: Counterintuitive Teaching
Video: Robert's Story
Audio: Routines
Audio: Rules
Task: This is how we do it here
Audio: A Plan for Everyday
Mind Candy
Video: Applying Consequences
Video: Picking Up Your Own Tab
Video: Triage
Document: Triage Model
Move on when...

How to be



In this section we are going to look at:

  • What teachers need to stay rational and focused on outcomes

  • How to reach zen levels of calm and protect everyone

  • How to be emotionally restrained in the face of poor behaviour

  • Why building relationships needs more than just great teaching

  • What you should realistically expect of your own behaviour in a busy and sometimes overwhelming job

Video: Expectations
Video: Chopper Harris
Video: Fighting Teenagers, Hugging Teenagers
Mind Candy
Video: Some of the Crowd Are on the Pitch
Task: Soundtrack to your teaching
Video: Restorative Conversations
You are not finished until...
Video: Goodbye and Good Luck

Optional Live Events

Steve Baker and I will be leading online workshops and behaviour conversations. You will be able to access all 7 workshops/events with your course license. 

14th September FE Workshop 1 8am with Paul Dix

21st September FE Workshop 2 8am with Steve Baker

28th September FE Workshop 3 8am with Steve Baker

5th October FE Workshop 4 8am with Steve Baker

Last Friday of every month at 8am live Behaviour Conversation with Paul Dix


The workshops/conversations will last for 60 minutes and are focused on:

1. Tricky Questions

A fascinating discussion on the key principles that frame Relational Practice and define its values. Do we give learners what they deserve or what they need? When they behave poorly are they challenging or distressed? Be ready to both share an opinion and question your own practice. 

2. Relational Currency

The power of emotional currency. How to get it, what to do with it and when to spend it most effectively. This workshop is all about positive relationships, positive acknowledgement and noticing. The apparently small stuff has an incredible impact. Be ready to tell a story.

3. Consequences

What is the role of consequences in Relational Practice? From pep talks to restorative conversations, how do you land a consequence without damaging the trust you have built up with a learner? Are stepped consequences effective or exclusionary?  Expect lively debate and be ready to make a plan for your consistent response 

4. Tough Situations

Working with learners who experience crises during the day means you need a backup plan as well as an everyday plan. How should you react, what systems do you draw on and how can you help learners recover. Be ready to share what you have learned through the course and to pool some ideas. 

These are workshops and not a series of talks. You will find yourself joining in and contributing.

We will record the workshops and put them here. If you can make it to the live session please do,  I am sure you will get more out of it. 

We look forward to meeting you in the first session. 

Steve Baker
Help! I need to speak to a human
Paul's Behaviour Gauge #1: Needs v Deserves
Paul's Behaviour Gauge #2: Tea or Booths
Paul's Behaviour Gauge #3: Pick Up Your Tab
Paul's Behaviour Gauge #4: Restorative or Punitive
Paul's Behaviour Gauge #5: Adults change vs children change
Conversations with Paul 1
Conversations with Paul 2: Making a new plan for September

Bonus Bits

Interview with Viv Buckley from Bridgend College
The Eyebrow - Starting with a New Class
Video: Paul speaking at the Cambridge Festival of Education (Full Keynote)
Paul on Podcasts and Videocasts
Video: The Outtakes
Video: Let's Go on the Tub!
Principles of Triage
Behaviour Support Plan

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Paul Dix's Behaviour Change Online Course

  • Course
  • 55 Lessons
  • 365-day access

A full training day with Paul Dix, online and at your own pace. Join thousands of schools and teachers worldwide using Paul’s acclaimed approach. This is relational classroom practice at its very best. For multiple bookings please email Bookings@WhenTheAdultsChange.com